A Sermon on Race and the Gospel

Written by Jesse Furey

A few years ago, I preached a sermon at Valley Bible Church that describes my journey in thinking about race and the Gospel in the New River Valley...and includes some challenges for a way forward in empathetic action. I thought it was worth reposting this to accompany our recent interview with Charles Wilson on the Hammer & Quill about Responding to Racial Injustice.  

Race, the Gospel, and Valley Bible Church

Most nights after I pray with my kids, I sing to them. It’s not a sweet sound, but they are sweet words! One of the songs in the routine is Amazing Grace, a hymn written by John Newton in the 18th century:

“Amazing grace, how sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me
I once was lost, but now I’m found
Was blind but now I see.”

Sweet, powerful words about the effects of believing the Gospel—words written by a former slave trader. John Newton was a captain of slave ships, bringing young Africans as property to be bought and sold and used. He was introduced to Jesus and believed the Gospel and slowly his eyes began to be opened. He left his vocation, became a pastor, and eventually became a spiritual advisor to William Wilberforce and many in the abolition movement in England. Just before his death he was overjoyed to hear the news that the slave trade had been abolished by parliament.

When Newton wrote about amazing grace, he knew he didn’t deserve it. He was a wretch, one who was complicit in the personal and systemic evils of racism. And when he wrote that he was blind, he didn’t just mean that he was blind to God’s goodness or presence or even to the truthfulness of the Gospel of Christ. All of those, yes. But he, wretched man that he was, was also blind to the sins of slavery, to the image of God in all its dignity and value and beauty in the Africans aboard his ship. He was blind to his neighbor.

Grace in the Gospel powerfully opened his eyes and he would never be the same.

This morning is not a typical VBC sermon. I won’t be working through a text in an expository series. This is my testimony as one of your pastors, a short story about my eyes being opened over the past few weeks, followed by an apology, a promise, a plea, and a hope.

Like many of you, I watched the footage from the Alton Sterling and Philando Castille deaths and felt the visceral pain that comes with witnessing that kind of violence. But I began to do what I did every other time I watched similar footage or read similar reports, whether it be Michael Brown or Trayvon Martin or Eric Garner or whoever, I resolved to wait for the facts to come out before I made an informed decision about what happened. And I am sure I would have soon stopped caring—like I had in each previous event—and settled into an informed but emotionally removed opinion about them.

But then I read parts of three different letters written by three different men in the same day and something changed.

First I read something Martin Luther King Jr. wrote: “It may well be that we have to repent in this generation. Not merely for the vitriolic words and the violent actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence and indifference of the good people who sit around and say, ‘wait on time’.”

That hit me. I was, after all, one of the good people. And I was silent and indifferent, paralyzed by the complexity of race and violence and injustice in our country.

Then I was reading a letter written by one of my heroes, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, written a few months before he would be arrested by the Gestapo for his defense of the Jews in Germany: “Mere waiting and looking on is not Christian behavior. The Christian is called to sympathy and action, not in the first place by his own sufferings, but by the sufferings of his brethren, for whose sake Christ suffered.”

That hit me in the same place. I had been waiting and looking on for a while, and Bonhoeffer put his finger on exactly why that was: I wasn’t suffering. We are called to sympathy and action not by our own sufferings but by the sufferings of our brethren, for whose sake Christ suffered.

I felt as though I had been worked over and my guard was down as I was reading Paul’s letter to the Ephesians later that morning. The first ten verses in chapter two contain some of the most powerful descriptions about how amazing grace is and how wretched we are. We are by nature enemies of God, and yet he came to us and died for us and united himself with us in Christ. This is such good news!

It is such good news that it doesn’t stop with changing our relationship with God but extends to our relationship with fellow man: “For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility by abolishing the law of commandments expressed in ordinances, that he might create in himself one new man in place of the two, so making peace, and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility” (Eph 2:14-16).

Jesus came to kill the hostility. To kill it, crushing it with his crushed body. First he, God in the flesh, kills the hostility in our hearts toward God—this is what makes it amazing grace! We were not merely blind, but were hostile enemies and he came for us and he sought us and he died for us.

But also the hostility between Jew and Gentile, black and white, neighbor and neighbor. The dividing wall between races was broken by the broken body of our savior. These letters compelled me—and so I spent some time this week grabbing coffee or a meal with some of my black friends, some of whom are members of our church, to ask how they are feeling. 

Rather than wait and watch from a distance, I wanted to move toward them with sympathy and become a learner. What I learned moved me. I heard fear and sadness and confusion and stories of racism. I heard their experience with comments like “I don’t really think of you as black,” which begs the question, what do you have in mind when you think of a black man?! Of hearing “you’re pretty for a black girl,” or “you’re well spoken for a black guy.” Of slurs shouted from passing cars, threats made to families, purses clutched tight. In other words—things I never notice or have to worry about.

I have become convinced that I must stop waiting and watching. Working for biblical justice and peace are complex things, and I don’t have all the answers (or hardly any perhaps?), but there are people in our community who are hurting and we must follow our savior in moving toward those who suffer.

And so, I want to offer an apology, a promise, a plea, and a hope.

An apology: As one of your pastors I am sorry for my inactivity; for waiting and watching too long. We ought to have stepped into this earlier. We ought to have reached out to our black members and neighbors and neighboring churches with sympathy. We are sorry for not leading the way in bearing each other’s burdens and sorrows.

A promise: We promise to become a place and people of peace. We promise to continue to hold up the Gospel of Jesus as the exclusive place of eternal hope and justice. We promise to work to become one of the safest and most charitable places in our valley for conversations about race and the Gospel and the culture of our valley. We promise to work to become a safe and welcoming place for our black neighbors to belong to and worship. We promise to move toward our neighboring black churches and pastors to promote friendships and to create opportunities for conversation and prayer together.

A Plea: Root out any racism hidden in your heart and repent of it. Before you assume there isn’t any to root out, remember that racism is a sin and one of the most insidious characteristics of sin is how it hides behind and below other things, just out of sight. Consider the most patient person you know and ask yourself if you think they ever struggle with impatience, with selfishness. Of course they do, because selfishness remains in your heart’s room even when it doesn’t reign on the throne. Root it out and bring it into the light of the Gospel and turn away from it, decide not to feed it or give it room to breathe.

Next I want to plead with you to disengage from social media debates. There can be a place in social media for working toward justice, but facebook comment sections are not that place. Social media debates don’t soften hearts and open minds, they calcify opinions and bring out the worst in us. They separate ideas from people and so we say things we would never say if we were looking a friend in the eyes. Just stop. If you disagree with something someone posts use your phone the old-fashioned way and call them. Or, even better, take them to coffee and have a conversation. Remember that the right way to debate someone is with charity and with the aim of moving together towards the truth, not to win at all cost.

In the same vein, I want to plead with you to stop being more shaped by the media than by the Scriptures and by flesh and blood people. We must reject any media narrative that tells us there is a villain to hate, a flesh and blood person or people (black or white or blue) to hate. We don’t fight against flesh and blood but against powers and principalities. We don’t wage a physical war with swords but a spiritual war with co-suffering and prayer. We want a target that easy to see and strike, and we swing our swords wildly like Peter in the madness of the dark garden betrayal, but Jesus picks his accusers’ severed ear off the dewy grass and puts the man back together because his way wasn’t the way of the sword but the way of loving enemies and bearing burdens and sorrows.

Let’s engage with flesh and blood. Let’s make charitable judgments about people, assuming the absolute best about them. Let’s begin conversations with our black friends and neighbors about their experience being black in the New River Valley. Let’s reach out to our friends and neighbors with different ethnic backgrounds and ask how we can better love them, better make them feel welcome in our homes and our church.

Finally, A Hope: W.B. Yeats wrote a powerful poem just after WWI titled “The Second Coming,” in which he captured much of the same sentiment we are feeling in our nation now, especially in one line: “Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold.”

He was wrong. Yes, things fall apart. But the center will hold because Christ is the center. He is the Lord of history. He will come again to judge the living and the dead and his kingdom will have no end. He will vanquish evil once and for all. Cornelius Plantiga puts it well: “Evil rolls across the ages, but so does good. Good has its own momentum. Corruption never wholly succeeds. Creation is stronger than sin and grace is stronger still…human sin is stubborn, but not so stubborn as the grace of God and not half so persistent, not half so willing to suffer to win its way.”

Let’s be a people who hope in the power of the amazing grace of God shown to us and given to us in Christ, who hope in the coming kingdom in which people from every tribe and tongue—a kaleidoscope of colors!—will live together in harmony and peace and eternal happiness. Who hope in a King was willing to be crushed in order to crush the dividing wall of hostility and who will wipe away all his friends’ tears with his nail scarred hands as he makes all things new.

Let’s hope in him as we move toward our neighbor with sympathy and action and the Gospel of His amazing grace. 

Unprecedented Grief

Written by Holly Paulette

I stopped myself from reading the news a few weeks into the COVID pandemic. Up in the night nursing my newborn, I initially tried to keep myself from dozing off by scrolling through the headlines, but I was sleeping terribly the rest of the night. The horror stories of loved ones dying alone in hospital beds was too much for me to handle, so I ignored the news, kept up-to-date on the top stories from my husband, prayed for our world, and focused on what was going on in our home.

Ignorance was bliss until it wasn’t. Until what was going on in the world collided with what was going on in our home. Until the loved one in the hospital bed was my Grandma. 

In a matter of hours, she went from no symptoms to double viral pneumonia. We all took turns FaceTiming her while she was still conscious and calling her as she slept. Gracious doctors and nurses kept us as updated as they could, but we were left to sit and wait, helplessly envisioning the matriarch of our family alone in a hospital bed, checked in on through windows and masked front-liners. And within a few days, my beautiful, God-fearing grandmother was gone, leaving behind six kids, 16 grandkids, 11 great-grandkids, and a wake of grief too heavy to comprehend.

As the coronavirus death toll rises daily, there’s an untraceable demographic rising, too. Mothers and fathers and sisters and brothers and sons and daughters and husbands and wives and grandkids and friends, all navigating uncharted territories of grieving deaths during a pandemic. 

Our culture has set up a preferred standard for the dignified way to die. The best case scenario in the midst of the worst case scenarios, the dying are never alone. They take their final breaths while surrounded, soothed and encouraged into eternal glory. When they pass, family gathers to reminisce and mourn together. Then a funeral takes place, where the family bears witness to all those who also loved their loved one. Finally, the dead are buried, and as dirt falls over graves, we attempt to find closure. 

But now? Our large, close-knit family can’t travel to be together. The state of New York, where she’ll eventually be buried alongside my grandfather, forbids physical touch, even at cemetery services. We’re all sitting alone in our grief, together only through group text threads. It’s painfully lonely. 

When these “dignified death standards” we rely on aren’t possible, we’re invited into a renewed reliance on God, faced with no other choice than to trust him to be present as our comfort, our peace, and our hope. Praise God--we mourn with hope, knowing our grandmother is at the feet of her Savior. But I’m not ignorant enough to think that our hope-filled grief is what’s being experienced by the literal millions of others in this dreaded loved-ones-club. This pandemic is bringing the world face-to-face with the reality of our need for hope. This isn’t how it should be--but it’s how it will be, whether it’s lonely deaths from COVID or the next tragedy, until Christ returns to make all things right. The promises he proclaims over us become our floatation device as we’re tempted to drown in unprecedented grief, and I pray grief brings the lost and the hurting grasping for rescue.

As we feel helpless: “For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, ‘Fear not, I am the one who helps you.’” (Isaiah 41:13) He helps the helpless.

As we feel lonely: “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” (Psalm 23:4) He’s present in darkness.

As we weep: “You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?” (Psalm 56:8) He sees our sorrow.

As anxiety overwhelms: “Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7) He loves us.

As we long for heaven: “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” (Romans 8:18) He’s preparing a place for us.

A few days before my Grandma passed away, I had the privilege of reading this scripture over her as she slept. As she now kneels before the One seated on the throne, witnessing this promise fulfilled, we wait and rest in this:

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. And he who was seated on the throne said, ‘Behold, I am making all things new.’” (Rev 21:4-5)

Come, Lord Jesus. Come. 

Quarantine Corner: Curated content for life on lockdown - Week 7

Written by Michael Worrall

Last week Emily said, “Every time you make, you gain a greater capacity to enjoy.” I wholeheartedly agree. Our making matters because it both reveals and reforms us. Our creative energy can both reveal and reform what we love most. It is both a signpost and shaper of our love.

We will think creatively about and work creatively towards what we love most. We ought to work creatively for the glory of God and the good of our neighbors in and through our family, job, intellect, status, and stuff; often we are working creatively for our own good in and through our family, job, intellect, status, and stuff, or even making those things ends in themselves. 

When we discover that what we are loving most is ourselves or the things we’ve been given, we can confess, change, and use that same creative thought and work to reform and reshape our love! Write a kind note to a friend, make a meal or bake something tasty for a busy coworker, help a neighbor with yard work, spend an evening in prayer for your community. The list could go on.

What is your creative energy revealing? 

Here is Week 7 of Quarantine Corner:

Listen - BibleProject podcast

The BibleProject helps people see that the Bible is a unified story that points to Jesus, and the podcast is no different. Hosted by Tim Mackie and Jon Collins, the BibleProject podcast discusses the Bible’s books, themes, key words, and ideas--plus much more! If you want to deepen your love for Jesus and his Word check out the BibleProject; it will help you marvel at God’s goodness, love, and creativity.

Read - Godric by Frederick Buechner  

Godric is a fictional retelling of the life of Saint Godric. The story is told as Godric recounts moments from his life to Reginald, the monk tasked with writing Godric’s saintly biography. The story is imaginative, whimsical, and comical. Godric will have you laughing out loud and wondering about natural and spiritual life. 

If you read and enjoy Godric consider picking up Brendan which is a similar saintly retelling.

Watch - Friday Night Lights (Amazon Prime or Hulu)

Dillon, Texas loves its high school football team. In many ways the life of the town revolves around the Dillon Panthers. Friday Night Lights follows high school football coach Eric Taylor and his family as he coaches the Dillon Panthers. You don’t have to like football to enjoy the show. The show spotlights marriage, family, friendship, community, and virtue as much as it does football. 

Bonus Watch - BibleProject videos 

If you listen to the BibleProject podcast you should check out the videos too! Most of the videos are less than 10 minutes and are creatively animated and illustrated to help you visualize the concepts that the videos present. If you want to dip your toes, watch the Tree of Life video

Dear Next Year's Me

Written by Holly Paulette

Dear Next Year’s Me,

Is it true? We made it to 2021? That, in and of itself, feels miraculous. What a doozy this year has been, and it’s barely May. 

Lest you forgot--a pandemic ravaged our world this year. I filled up my ol’ minivan for less than $20, especially thanks to our growing Kroger Rewards because our family eats approximately one million more meals than before. Schools have been out since Spring Break. Restaurants are only offering carry-out, if that (please tell me Nagoya opened back up). I had to crowd-source two pounds of chicken from my group texts to be able to make dinner one night. I homeschooled our wild child, with a toddler and newborn in tow. Birthdays were celebrated by drive-by parades, weddings took place on Zoom, and--most heartbreaking of all--funerals were postponed. And that’s just in my little world. The world around us saw tragic numbers of illness, death, and pain. 

But--it wasn’t all terrible, and because we’re a people prone to forgetting, here’s a list of a few things I want to remember coming out of this season of quarantine:

Appreciate church. In the hustle and bustle of Sunday mornings, in fastening hair bows and in incessant reminders to put shoes on, in the race to get a seat in the sanctuary (VBC--if you know, you know)--remind your soul what it felt like to worship alongside just those you’ve spent every other waking (and sleeping) hour with. You know the “greet-your-neighbor” minute that all the introverts dread? Embrace it! Greet your dang neighbor with genuine hospitality. I can only imagine the cheesy grin I’ll have on my face when we are able to safely gather again. It may be hidden by a mask, but it’ll be there. What a gift it is to love our local church and church body so much that we grieved the absence of it for months. I pray I’ll never forget how much I missed it.

Embrace slowness. Before all this went down, I thought that “being busy” equated to “being productive.” I reveled in a full calendar and felt restless with free time, convincing myself that slow mornings and relaxing nights were time-wasters. Now, we’re forced to be bored, and it’s a glorious thing. Boredom has forced creativity. I’ve made new recipes, relished in nonsense conversations with our toddler, destroyed our seven-year-old in UNO without an ounce of shame, snuggled our new baby without glancing at a device, and read books upon books upon books. I may not have produced as much stuff, but the slower pace has produced precious, unhurried memories. 

Lean into community. Zoom book club meetings, Marco Polo group chats, and six-feet-away conversations suffice, but absolutely nothing compares to being with friends and family in person. The feel of a tight hug cannot be replaced by stilted virtual hangouts. I know you’re tired and your introversion can be an easy excuse to stay in, but it is a privilege to know and be known by people. Don’t take for granted the generosity of God in the form of people to do life alongside. Linger longer on front porches, say “yes” to impromptu Margarita nights, and invite people in. 

Go roam Target. Trust me. And while you’re there, buy an extra pack of toilet paper. Just in case. 

Love,
The Still-Quarantined 2020 You

A Time to Contemplate Friendship

Written by Brittany Osborne and Seth McDuffie

Amidst social isolation, one thing is for sure: we all miss our friends. The desire for connection and face-to-face interaction exists regardless of age, marital status, location, whether a person is typically drawn to introversion or extroversion, etc. We all long for the day we can once again gather without masks or six feet of separation. This is telling of the value of friendship. 

In the church, marriage is often the human relationship spoken of most frequently, and some would argue it is valued above other human relationships. Marriage is a beautiful, God-ordained, covenantal relationship necessary to life and human flourishing. It is an earthly reminder of the eternal reality that the Church is Christ’s bride and will be with him forever. However, while not all will marry this side of eternity, we all need friends. We feel the need for friendship now more than ever.

Friendships, along with all other relationships, are subordinate to our relationship with God. While the Bible does speak often on marriage and family, it also has plenty to offer regarding Christ-centered friendships. First, we have the privilege of being Christ’s friend. In John 15 Jesus says to his disciples, 

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you” (v.12-15)

What a friend we have in Jesus! He laid down his life for us. 

In turn, to love God and be Christ’s friend means we learn to lay down our lives for each other. Christ ordained friendship is selfless. While 1 Corinthians 13 is most often read at weddings, it is no less true of friendship. Friendships are a rich mark of Christ’s heart toward the church. We have the opportunity to move toward one another without legal obligation or a promise of faithfulness. Jesus moves towards us and invites us to live in pursuit of others without promise of reciprocation. If we were to focus our hope on the full reciprocation of other’s love towards us, then we would not be able to practice all the characteristics of love mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13. Christ models the perfect, selfless pursuit of friendship with his hope set on God. 

Within that same vein of thinking, friendships are invitational and ask others to go deeper in the pursuit of gospel-centered living. Friendships can never be entirely exclusive, blocking others from looking or joining in. There will always be relationships that are unique to the people involved. While these are incredibly valuable and beautiful, they cannot stay isolated. We need to keep the windows and doors of our hearts open to others so we can hear to whom God is leading us. This is not to say we have to be incredible friends with everyone or have a gigantic friend circle, but our hearts are meant to be hospitable. To shut off those entrances would be to self-isolate or create an inbred feedback loop amongst an exclusive crowd. It could also mean not allowing others to peer into our weakness or help expose sin in love. In reality we are often comfortable keeping our doors of hospitality just barely ajar so we won’t feel inconvenienced. Although Jesus had his own close friends who he intimately lived alongside, he did it for the purpose of going out. He eventually left his friends because there was a bigger work of invitation to be done. This is what makes the formation of friendship so precious; it can be found in many places so God’s heart can be shown to many people through his Spirit.

Friendship is meant to be a Spirit-filled activity. As the relational common denominator of humanity, it is a valuable tool to be used by God, which we get to share in and enjoy. Gospel-centered friendships can be one of the first and most effective signs of God’s love for the world. As Jesus said in John 17, “The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.” 

During this quarantine ask God where your heart is for friendships. Is your heart open to gospel-centered, sacrificial, and invitational friendships? Do you live your life with a hospitable heart, listening to where the Spirit may be leading? Who in this quarantine needs to be reached out to? He invites us into some of his greatest work in our friendships, because in his greatest work of love we see Jesus laying his life down for us, his friends.